Monday, November 5, 2012

FEELING those Phillipines- and Ma 'n Pa Korea-ing on like crazy



The time has come the Walrus said, To talk of many things: Of shoes--and ships--and sealing-wax-- Of cabbages--and kings--And why the sea is boiling hot--
And
WINTER IS COMING! 

With all our winter warmies on!
Yes it is, NOW it is, this morning I woke up on this sun sun sunny day and thought “I want to go climbing at the climbing wall”. After a long 20 minutes on a freezing scooter we realized that if our hands were this cold to start with, climbing would be a painful and dismal endeavor and instead we ended up coffeeing in a coffee shop hiding from the cold. The cold is slowing me down- more movies, less sports, more food, less activity. I feel my body starting to grow as I eat more and run around less, wallowing while my pasty body enlarges with gluttonous laziness.

I have been thinking of winter for so long; on every summers day it has brooded softly in the back my head, this dark force that would stretch into all the trees of Korea and strip them, leaving them lifeless and leafless and so immensely unpretty. Where no beauty is found but grey and the streets will fill up with litter that will not be picked up by the old people of Korea for even they, are too cold. A Korean winter is a terrible thing. But let’s not fear for the future but rather dwell on a gorgeous past, that is, the end of a heavenly summer. 


I went to the Philippines. How cool is that? For 3 days, well 5 days kind of but 2 of those days were traveling days and tiring at that. How can I be so spoiled as to be able to go to the Philippines for a few short days? Yes I am, I did. And even though at the back of my mind and the bottom of my stomach I kind of regretted spending so much money on just a glimpse of a country, now i can proudly say I couldn’t have not regretted it more than I don’t regret it. After a delayed and very hungry journey through China (my Korean Visa card wouldn’t work at the airport for some reason) there they were- my family well 50% of it)- my parents and my sister Sarah- looking tanned yet tired and happy to see me. 


We had a rather messy arrival in Manila and  a night in a rather dodgy looking motel/hotel place where I slept on a bed almost skinnier than me yet we set off the following day on a very comfortable bus and the country exploded into colour. Tropical trees and plants burst all over, on the streets were all sorts of vehicles such as their taxi-like “jeepnies”( which kind of looked like those big old rolls royce’s and were painted with such imagination), the little shops filled with little things were all characteristic and the people ,wow the people were so lovely. And warm. And they spoke ENGLISH, or at least a mixture of it.

 We took that bus and then a jeepnie all the way down to a lake and inside that lake there was an island and inside that island there was a volcano and inside that volcano was a lake and inside that lake was another island (well large rock that they call an island). My father asked our friendly Jeepnie driver to find us a place to stay and I don’t really know what happened but soon we were transported to this fabulous place owned by our new friend Joe. 


Now friend Joe and friend Joe’s family owned this whole place complete with fighting cocks , a few bungalows to sleep in, boats to take tourists to the island-lake-island-volcano thing and it seemed like everything that we needed could be provided by some relative or other. We needed fruit from his aunt’s fruit shop, fish from his uncle’s fish shop, his sister would cook the meal, his brother in law would take us on the boat to the island and friend Joe would supply us with any information about the region or about the politics of the country. A true family affair, we were the only people there and he gave us rooms for the equivalent of R50 ($7) per night and the family made food which was food that would stay in my stomach memory forever. 


The volcano-island-lake-island-lake-island or Taal Volcano as it's really name is was pretty rad too. Thanks to my sister’s extensive research we decided not to take the sad-looking-underfed donkeys up the mountain but instead use the legs that have been given to us instead. What a good decision! As I ascended the mountain that was almost ruined with huge ruts walked in from the "horses" and seeing the fat tourists bump down 70 degree slopes I was so happy to be on my feet without a guide whipping the tiny pony to go faster and faster down a precarious slope. The hike was beautiful and hot and sweaty and after a while I saw some smoke billowing out in the distance. Wondering why people would be making a fire on this hot day we came closer only to smell a rather unpleasant smell. “Ah yes”, my mom reminded us “we ARE on a volcano” and the smoke was the sulphur coming out and the rock was hot hot hot to touch. It was y first hike on an active volcano- WOOP!

The top of the volcano was gorgeous and there they had t-shirts, drinks and what not to sell and a peculiar amount of Philippinos renting out golf clubs per the golf ball so one could hit the golf ball off the top of the volcano and try to hit the tiny “island” (more like a large rock) in the middle. We convinced my dad it was his duty to hit the golf all off the top of the volcano (though I wasn’t sure about how environmentally friendly the whole thing was). I don’t think he got the golf ball too far but the Philipino lied to us about how far it went (well maybe she was just being encouraging) and we continued down the mountain to a ridiculously exquisite fish-vegetabley dinner cooked by miscellaneous family member number 7. 

We were sad to leave the happy haven of cheap accommodation, family minded Philipinos and rickety streets with no foreigners but I needed to see some colourful fish underwater. So we set forth (lugging all of their millions of bags in crowded low ceilinged Jeepnies) to Anilao which is supposed to be one of the best diving places on the island of Luzon. After some rather mad cajoling for accommodation we ended up with another hospitable Phillipino at a diving place. Now we were comfortably there next to the ocean with our snorkeling boat ride organized for the following day, we needed food. My mother and I and the hospitable Phillipino then got onto a trike which is a motorbike attached to a sidecar (my mother in the side car and me on the back of the motorbike) and got a ride into town where we spent small amounts of money on tons of vegetables and fish for the following day.  


So the next day dawned beautifully and we got on this fast boat and jumped into clear waters filled with colourful colourful fish! Wow I have never seen such things, so any different colours swimming in and out and around wherever you are, I dived and swam and exalted in the warm waters and the things my eyes could see with the luminous rocks and squishy anemones stretching far and wide. Lunch came upon us and we went to this special beach to cook lunch. We waited for our guides to cook us lunch (such spoiled tourists) played charades when the rain decided to come bucketing (and I mean BUCKETING) down all around us. Strangely enough it was a game my parents hadn’t played much before and was a good time waster until all the yummy yummy food came out. Also the beach was absolutely strewn with the most vivid dried corals and we searched for the most intricate ones to take home )probably illegal but no one was stopping us). We decided that although snorkeling was an under-water activity, being on a wet cold boat afterwards wasn’t exactly the vibe so we sped back to our resort singing pirate songs to ward off the unpleasantness of rain pelting into our eyes.  

After resting and listening to the rain and another good supper and some packing we went to sleep only to wake at 4am, say a sad farewell to my lovely sister and to start the trek back to Manila where my parents and I would go to KOREA! It was a trike and then a Jeepney and then a bus and we were in Manila earlier than expected with the rain still pouring down! Manila was covered in all sorts of water, people were making wooden walkways over flooded streets for tips and a taxi to the airport was near impossible to find. Finally we saw one but only after my father had to practically force the taxi driver to let some VERY VERY wet tourists into his nice dry car, did we got to the airport. I bought some Phillipino Rum and got onto my flight to return to Korea. 

And then KOREA... 


Well that was a rather whirlwind of 2.5 weeks. They were living in my bedroom and I was kind of living between there and a friend’s house, trying to complete all my commitments, go to work and show them as much as I could. They wanted to relax after the Philippines so the first few days were involved with sleeping and washing their clothes and then it was onto Gyeonjiu and Frisbee matches for me and them enjoying the ambiance of the oldest town in Korea. Many kings are buried there and it’s full of beautiful temples. We had rather huge plans to go to the Andong mask festival that night (3 hours away) and I somehow was going to get back for my Frisbee match the next day but instead we decided not to and they decided to camp next to the river that I had played Frisbee on that day and the next day they set off to go camping and hiking in another part of the country. 

I really wanted to show my parents the charm of Korea. It’s a very strange country and not really a tourist destination so it's difficult for travelers to get around confidently. However, when my parents came back from their little camping trip in the mountains they were only too happy to tell us about all the Koreans who tried to help them even though they didn’t know a word of English and how everyone stopped them to share some sort of food or other with them. My dad was also given raw squid to eat though of course he just said thank you, bagged it, and cooked it when he had a stove- not the Korean way but the best way to do anything in this country is to take what they give you and adapt which I felt they did quite well. 

My parents also came to an animal birthday party where my mother dressed up as a giraffe and gave everyone a good giraffe impression on the stage (there was a performance and the party was after)- much to the Pohang foreigner community's delight. We also visited an island on the south coast of Korea. And went hiking up this mountain past many waterfalls where my mother immediately dived into the icey water- I couldn’t let her beat me so I had to dive in too! Wow it was icey but it’s embarrassing when your 60 year old mother is more adventuress than you. We also took a trip to the Eastern most point of Korea for the sunrise. There is a statue of an open hand in the ocean and it is a great place for a photo (or 74) with the sun coming behind it making it look like the sun is in the hand. The hand faces another hand on land and these 2 open hands are meant to symbolize harmony and coexistence.


I also took them for a visit to Jukdo market which is the biggest outdoor market in South Korea and it is full of all sorts of wacky things- dried squid tentacles, bondegi (silkworm pupae) all sorts of strange edible roots, eels, fish on a stick and more. Most of the things you have no idea what they are and I’m sure some of them don’t even have English translations. We bought some vegetables including “tomatoes” that were not tomatoes but fruits called persimmons and my parents practiced bowing at all the many shop vendors. 


On their last night we played my favourite board game and I took my mother to a Jimjilbang or a Korean bathhouse. We dipped in all the pools and my mother as usual stood under the freezing cold waterfall wowing all the Korean women with her fearless embracing of the cold. My father did not join us as he was not too interested in being naked around a whole bunch of other Korean men. The following morning they went off to Seoul and I said goodbye, happy to have my room back but sad to say goodbye. 



I’m glad I got to show them a little bit of this funny country, especially when the weather was so glorious and sunny every day. Now things are changing and I have closed my windows and I shriek when I come out of the bathroom after a steamy shower. I will be strong though and not give in to putting my heating on until it is really uncomfortable- the button does look so tempting at times! However, I did get an email a few days ago saying my ski season passes are in the mail and I am ready to spend my weekends flying down mountains on a snowboard once again. 

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